Bullies never win!

I know this is rather a strange thing to talk about compared to my other posts but I thought I'd talk about it, as it's touched me and touched those that I love and care about in the past. There's never really any explanation to why someone get bullied, sometimes it's jealousy, they desperately want something the other person has, perhaps that person is different, their hair is different, they aren't particularly tall, or they are mad on studying, and because of this they are bullied! I'm gonna be pretty damn blunt here, it's fucking wrong! 

I'm gonna be honest here, some kids don't realize they are bullying someone, what can start as a bit of fun can get out of hand extremely quick. Most people have a strong enough backbone to deal with it, but some don't and trust me you gotta respect that. Some are stronger then others, and those who aren't, have their self esteem dropped within seconds of someone saying something to them. There is nout wrong with that, we are who are and there's nothing wrong with being sensitive. The problem arises when someone knows that, that person is sensitive and preys on them, makes fun of them for their own entertainment. That ladies and gentlemen is a bully.

Never ever put someone down because they are successful at something, you have a gift, they have a gift, if you can't handle someone else being extremely good at something, you have a major jealousy problem, if you aren't gonna lock it away in Pandora's box, keep your fucking mouth shut! Their confidence and self esteem has now sunk to the ground because you've put them down, shame on you! Why do that to someone? Share your gift with them, teach them something and visa versa, don't put them down! What you said, will now be with them for the rest of their life! I hope you carry the burden on your shoulders for the rest of your life, you bullied someone and made them feel worthless! Fuck you! 

I cannot stress enough how much schools must learn to pick up on bullying before it's too late. Don't always assume they are having a laugh, listen to what is being said and the reactions at the other end. Believe me, body language will tell you a lot. It goes for the same in the workplace, don't let anyone bully you at work, it doesn't matter how old you are, you can be affected at any age, if you bully in the workplace, you have a serious issue and you need to sort it. It's rare, but it has been known to happen! Thankfully a lot of companies won't tolerate as do a lot of schools! 

Please don't be afraid to step up and say something, whether in school or the workplace if you are being bullied! No one deserves to be bullied and have their confidence knocked and please don't bully!